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About Nick Di Maria

Nick Di Maria is a New Haven, CT based jazz trumpeter. Since 2006, Nick has been performing with his quartet all over New England and New York City. Heavily influenced by Miles Davis and Eddie Henderson, Nick's music extends the capabilities of post bop, electronic and experimental music.

I grew up Punk Rock and it spoiled me rotten.

The first time I started going to see bands was in high school. I was 15 years old and as far as I was concerned the garage bands in my town were the best in the world and their members were who I envied the most.

I grew up in suburban Connecticut which meant a lot of punk rock shows. Most of the bands in my high school were filled with kids like me: dark jeans, chain wallets, t-shirts with band names on them and cheaply dyed hair. I wanted to be these kids so badly.

Then I got my chance in the fall of 2001 when I joined a ska band playing trumpet. My dream came true and I spent the next 5 years playing countless shows across the country while I balanced a lack luster love life and college studying.

Like most former members, I didn’t leave The Flaming Tsunamis on very good terms. In fact I have only kept in touch with one of members since I left. Our music was terrible and our live performances were sloppy but I grew up in those years and I am grateful for that.

The punk and ska scene was a sight to see no matter where you were. From Connecticut to Kansas to California to Canada you always had a friend at a punk rock show. Whether it was at a VFW Hall or a club, the scene was strong with supporters.

Key word: Supporters 

I remember being late for a show in Topeka, Kansas by 3 hours. 3 hours!! And when we rolled up the venue was still packed at 11pm. The whole town came out and waited for us to play because they liked our music and knew there was a good chance we would never be back again. For me at least, that was true.

The Punk scene is a music community that works more efficiently than the municipalities they exist within. Bands have a chance to be showcased and the fans are always welcoming to anyone starting out. You always have a second chance in punk. I can’t tell you how many musicians were in multiple bands, trying and retrying new things just to make some music people would enjoy.

Fans bought all your merch! They wore your t-shirts and bought your CDs and helped you find a place to crash. I slept on more couches of strangers between the years 2003-06 than I ever will for the rest of my life. Moms from all 50 states cooked me food because I played her kids’ show and knew it was days since my last real meal.

You were in it for the friends and the music. 

So then my question is this: Why is there such little scene support in the Nutmeg State? There are so many great artists and bands playing all kinds of styles in various venues and far too many times the audience is bare boned. (Most of these venues are restaurants where only straight ahead groups can really get their foot in the door. Also a built in audience with diners and patrons on a daily basis.)

And that is where my point leads to. There is just not enough support in the jazz scene. I’ve been to too many shows, primarily at the Outer Space, where there are no more than 3 people in the audience.

3!

I honestly don’t get it and I have been trying to figure out a plan to fight this lack of attendance for 2 years now. I’ve brought in special guests, thrown festivals and booked bands both local and from far and still every week we scrape by with a joke in terms of numbers. The best part is, there are so many great things happening!! So many cats are playing hip original music and I’ve witnessed tons of excellent shows!

Why don’t people come out?

There’s no cover, there’s tons of great beer, good atmosphere and a welcoming staff and still nothing. I understand life gets in the way and I’m not asking for the same people to come every week but come on. (Its also funny that the more demanding musicians are the ones who never come at all.)

I hate to think its the lack of money. I have this conversation/argument with a lot of cats. Believe I AM always going to work to get my band members paid for their work, but I also love to play jazz music. I take a restaurant gig when I want to make some scratch and then I take a venue like the OS and make money off the door. (And if it is about money, then we should  be working together to get fair and even wages instead of stabbing each other in back.) The joy of playing is sometimes plenty enough. I mean, I gig in NYC frequently and have never been given a guarantee. I play those gigs because I want people to hear my music and I want to make music with like minded people. The Outer Space doesn’t guarantee money to bands and God Dammit that’s how it works in the rock world! You play for the door cover!! Why is that so hard to accept?? You’re not playing for free. Its not a bar that makes money off of a steady stream of patrons, its an arts space.

And a damn good one if you ask me.

I’m grateful for having a place like the Outer Space to perform in.

..and it sickens me knowing so many take it for granted.

The Beatnik, Digitized.

Good morning everybody!

I wanted to announce that my album The Beatnik is now available as a digital download on my Bandcamp page. Real copies are still available if you send me an email requesting one but if you’re one of those “I gave up on physical media,” check out the site and download it.

Thanks, as always for supporting niche-indie-real-nonautotuned music!

Nick

Too Big For Their Britches

Whoa! Whoa! Whoa!

Did anyone realize how unimportant their music is in this world? Music?! Stop there! I should say Total Existence on Planet Earth!

Whether you come from a small, tight knit suburban music scene or a tight middle sized New Haven-esq type scene or a “little fish in a big pond major city” type music scene, let’s face it: Reputation Matters.

Not just, reputation but the way in which you treat others. I work and live within the confines of a tight middle sized music scene in the New Haven area. Many of the musicians in these parts know and work with each other in some degree or fashion. I’ve even known some of these musicians since high school and our garage band days. In fact I’m quite proud to see some of the guys I first played with grow into serious musicians and see their success. Some have even made it a habit of working with some heavy hitting groups and artists. Just recently I got to talk with a pal who I haven’t seen in years but is climbing his way up the indie rock ladder. I’m sure some of you have heard of The Stepkids. Great band and its awesome talking with their drummer Tim, a classmate of mine in college and talking shop. Don’t forget the little people when you spend a day in your gold plated jacuzzi someday!

Since creating the Jazz Series at the Outer Space in Hamden in the winter of 2011, I have been able to work with many more musicians from all around and see the business side of the scene from a different perspective. I started to realize why so many talented musicians never seem to get the amount of work that you would expect. Mostly, because they act like jerks to people.

You wouldn’t believe the demands I receive from musicians when booking a date for the series. From money to food to crowd expectation. I mean don’t get me wrong. Musicians deserve their earnings. I support that just as much as anyone else. However, I know when not to be an asshole to people. Talking down to a fellow musician or booker while talking yourself up, is no way to make a career. I learned from Eddie Henderson once: “You never want animosity on the bandstand, because its the music that suffers the most.” Can’t get any more simple than that.

We all have stories to tell and retell again and again of a time someone was a serious dumb ass on a gig. (I won’t get into firing a bandmate when I found out he said some inappropriate stuff to my friend’s girlfriends…. and mine own… at the same party.) But honestly, are these cats aware of their behavior? Sometimes I hope not because it would be quite irritating knowing they’re aware of it and think its ok.

Maybe I’m just a bleeding heart liberal who thinks of a perfect society where a jazz club exists on every block and every musician treats each other fairly and the gigs are plentiful and the money is astronomical and there’s free candy day and gas costs barely anything and you can watch Looney Tunes  again and your girlfriend doesn’t turn the TV off when you want to watch Lethal Weapon for the 2nd time that day in between Rocky marathons!

I digress.

Let me get to the point of this post because if you’ve read this far, well, I owe you.

When a musician treats you badly, you can just hire another. Simple. When a show promoter treats you badly. It affects the scene. We have such a show promoter in the Nutmeg State. Someone who thinks they are the only game in town and just because they work within the network they can treat people like shit. It grinds my gears this Naplolean-God like complex and I’ve noticed that some club owners embrace it because let’s face it, the organizer brings business. I can’t blame the club owners for it, I want them in business just as much as anyone else. But, I can bitch about it on the internet! Booyah!

I like to think that I treat each musician I work with, whether on the bandstand or as a booking agent for the series, equally. I offer them the same fair deal as everyone else and do my best to spread their sound when I can. But the organizers of one particular booking agency in Connecticut (face it, we all know who I’m talking about) need to realize you can’t act like an asshole to people. It creates negative karma for you. One day there will be a young kid like you, trying to do the same work and they’ll have a better situation because they’ll know your reputation and how 99% of the people who work with you think you’re a fucking scumbag. Lastly, stop treating people like dirt because its only a matter of time before someone “socks you in the mouth.”

Just be cool, people.